Cord Blood Banking

The quote below is from the site http://cells4life.com/cord-blood-banking-overview/legislation/ as it discusses the benefits of cord blood banking. I heard about this from another site and had to find it for myself because I wondered if it actually said this as they quoted it. So upon finding it, I wanted to share it here with you. This is an attempt at manipulating someone’s perception of what’s the best option; this is not informed consent.

“Storing your baby’s cord blood preserves a potentially life saving resource that would usually be thrown away…”

 

Usually is the key word.  It doesn’t let on that the majority of the people who are throwing away cord blood, are doing so because we’re told it’s not important or necessary to delay cord clamping so as to wait until it’s done pulsating. The cord is clamped by the majority of doctors as well as some midwives, almost as soon as the baby is born. However, there are great benefits in allowing the blood to go directly to the baby and to delay the clamping of the cord.

Instead, this quote suggests that storing the cord blood so it won’t be thrown out and wasted, indicates that storing it is the alternative to throwing it in the trash – but it’s not. Delayed cord clamping is. Also stated on the site is that “cord blood is a waste product” as it defends the ethical decision to donate the cord blood, but it further manipulates the reader to perceive the alternative is to store the blood, because it’s waste/trash. It should express however, the highly valuable benefits of allowing the baby that the cord blood belongs to, in receiving it all before clamping and cutting the cord… but the number of people who would donate their newborn baby’s blood if they knew would likely drop.

There is an alternative to throwing cord blood in the trash and naturally, it’s delayed cord clamping.  If someone is interested in cord blood banking, that option is there as well, but the alternative isn’t for it to be wasted.

<<Please see my other blog entries that go more in depth regarding the benefits of delayed cord clamping by clicking here.>>

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Freebirth is Not Illegal

Freebirth is not illegal. It’s also not illegal to practice self-care and to only utilize the medical community when there is a need. Last I checked, it’s also not mandatory to seek a medical perspective for matters regarding health (aka well child check ups).

That being said, please spread the word so people stop reporting families to CPS for having a freebirth, for taking responsibility for their own health and the health of their children, and for seeking the assistance of a medically schooled individual only as a need arises.

Furthermore, just because you disagree with someone’s personal health choices, still doesn’t provide reason to report a family to CPS. If you’re truly concerned, take a minute to get to know the family yourself and IF there is further concern (true neglect, abuse, an unsanitary living situation according to the appropriate standards of that is considered unsafe) – and they are uninterested in learning better, healthier, and safer ways of caring for their family, then take further action. CPS is not to be the first call you make. It’s the lazy call – and it is devastating for families that are not doing anything illegal or harmful with their precious little ones.

My family dealt with CPS in 2013 and the fear alone of the power they have made my husband and I a mess for months despite our case being closed almost immediately – one social worker has the authority to determine if children are to be removed immediately and further investigation to be had… and not all social workers take action based on the appropriate standards.

I know women afraid to not take the advice of her doctor out of FEAR that they will report her to CPS. This is WRONG. Doctors are not gods! We are our children’s parents and it’s legal and SMART to get second and third opinions to determine our best options to care for our families.

Please consider this before picking up that phone and calling CPS. I’ve heard of more cases of CPS involvement where they shouldn’t have been than in cases where they should have been. All too often, I hear stories from people about how they should have been removed and no one did anything or the opposite, they were removed and the entire family dealt with trauma as they fought to prove their innocence and get their children back.

CPS can be a great asset to families in need and to hurting children. Let’s utilize them where they are needed, please, and stop harassing families that do things differently than you. Thank you!

Not a Mark of Failure

The article below is probably triggering for some but what I have to say is only stirred by the article, so don’t read the article if you don’t feel you can.

What stirred me is the first sentence in the article, “Midwives have dropped their decade-long campaign for ‘normal birth’, saying that it made women feel like failures.”

I find it so important that we as women are encouraged, and that we encourage other women, to trust our intuition and be educated. Then, we are in pursuit of a healthy and empowering birth that we are in control of. When we are educated and confident, reaching out for assistance is only part of that and not a mark of failure. We are intelligent, strong, loving, and powerful creatures! 

Ladies, you are precious, beautiful, amazing, capable, and strong. Pregnancy and birth is an incredible journey that marks bringing forth our children from our womb, and an awesome responsibility and gift to do so. Having a birth you desire, where you are safe and cared for, where you’re left loving yourself and knowing you did all you could is priceless. Transferring in an emergency, and seeking medical assistance to provide the care that is needed in any given moment, is a part of your success. You did what you were empowered to do and sought a helping hand to ensure you continued to be safe and cared for.

That is ONLY success. ♥

<<To read the article I’m referring to, entitled “Midwives Are Backing Down On Natural Childbirth”, click here>>

A New Venture

Heyyyy everyone!  Admin here!  I wanted to get everyone involved in this new project that’s been floating around in my mind for the last couple of years.  I would like to compile information to put into a book about free pregnancy and freebirth, as well as share my own personal experiences with it.  While it’s not necessarily original, I do feel it will be the first of its kind.  I don’t believe it will just be another unassisted childbirth book, I hope to add a dynamic that’s slightly different than what I’ve seen and I’m really excited about it!  I hope you’ll all be actively involved in sharing your thoughts with me as well!

So tell me: if you were to read a book about freebirth, what would you expect?  What information would you want to see in it, what would you like to learn, what questions would you want answered, etc.  Also, I’d like to include a section in the book to share encouraging freebirth stories as well as those with supportive doctors and midwives.  This book will be in complete support of freebirth and talk about safety measures to take, truths regarding medical interventions, as well as our ability as women to birth our babies as God intended.  That being said, it will not be a book that is anti-medical intervention/assistance where needed and necessary. So if you have some ideas, email me at kristiwhitten@ymail.com. Please take note that birth stories will be slightly edited for readability and grammar/punctuation but will otherwise be untouched. Also, if you want anonymity, please let me know. If you don’t specify, I will not remove names that are included.

If you’ve experienced birth trauma, I also want to hear from you!  What is a resource you wish you had access to that would have helped you cope?  What information do you wish you had that you feel would have helped prevent those experiences?  What do you wish doctors/midwives did differently and what information do you wish you were armed with in order to have a safe and successful birth that didn’t inflict the emotional (and perhaps physical) harm that you endured.  I believe these stories are just as helpful as the encouraging and successful freebirths because they help arm us with full disclosure and information we need to give us confidence, resolve, and determination in pursuing the birth we so personally desire.

It’s not going to be exhaustive, but I do want this book to be well-rounded and a great resource for those researching their options.  I want it to answer the questions of those interested in learning more as well as provide what many of us who have had one or more freebirths love so much from the support groups.  I want it to bring encouragement and empowerment and for it to be a useful and helpful tool in the shed of resources available out there for someone working toward building a healthy lifestyle and taking responsibility for the birth of their beloved babies.

Will you help me on this venture?  I hope you will! Please email me! Spam me with your ideas.  If you do not want me to quote you, please say so because if you share something great, I’m gonna quote you! hahaha!  If you’d rather help in some other way, sharing links or resources you have found along the way is also a huge help as I dive into further research to provide.  You could also help monetarily through donations towards the book or blog.  I pay a small annual fee to keep this blog running and clean/free of ads, as well as spend time moderating and researching, however I’ve done so out of passion and feel every penny and minute I’ve spent has been worth it to provide easy access to helpful information.  However, if you feel led to donate, you can do so through paypal.me/KristiWhitten.

Be sure to check back or sign up for notifications so you can order your own copy once it’s completed!  Thank you all for continued your support!  I’m really excited to get more resources out there and normalize freebirth as a safe and educated birthing option for those who desire to do so.

The Average Length of Pregnancy

We have three stacks of pancakes: stack one with eight pancakes, stack two with three, and stack four with four pancakes. There are 15 pancakes in all. If we rearrange the pancakes to have an equal number in each stack, we get five in each stack. Upon doing so, five is thus the average number of pancakes in each stack.
 
With this logic in pregnancy, we take three women: one who goes 38wks into her pregnancy before giving birth, one who goes 40wks into her pregnancy, and one who goes 43wks into her pregnancy before giving birth. There are 121wks total among the three women. If we arrange the weeks to have an equal number in each pregnancy, we get 41wks for each woman. Upon doing so, 41wks is the average number of weeks a woman would go into her pregnancy before giving birth to her baby…
 
Except pregnancy doesn’t work like that because 41wks might be the average length of a pregnancy until one reaches full term, but it doesn’t mean it’s for every woman. Due dates are calculated around this illogical idea of the average length of pregnancy and thus creates an already difficult journey to feeling like one is expired when truly, their baby is exactly where they should be (except for exceptional cases, of course) and their pregnancy is not yet to the end. As such, there is no such thing as going “late” or “too long” in a pregnancy. One can only reach their own very unique and personal full term with each individual pregnancy and each individual woman. 
Women and pregnancies aren’t pancakes. We’re a lot more amazing than that. 😉

A Word From the Admin

The main goal here at Free Pregnancy and Freebirth is to arm men and women with information to make educated choices about health, pregnancy, and birth. Pregnancy and birth is not predictable, and as such, it’s important to understand the body, how to care for it, and the dynamics of birth to encourage a safe and empowering experience. Keeping the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual states of the mother, father, and baby in mind all factor into this experience.

We support the desire of men and women who feel more comfortable with assistance that includes chiropractic, midwifery, naturopathic, or obstetric care. It is not our goal to ostracize the medical community. There are scenarios when the need for urgent care arises, and that should be the only time interventions take place. For this, we are thankful for those in the medical community who seek to serve, educate, and empower families in their pregnancy and birthing journey, and take on the life-saving tasks when it’s a true need.

Freebirth is not a desire to risk or endanger the lives of babies or women. It’s a calculated and educated choice with the desire to be free to birth as it was designed and to be free to seek help if and/or when it’s needed. Emergency cesarean sections are a gift, only when they are necessary. The decision to move onto a cesarean section should not be taken lightly if a woman would rather give birth vaginally. In order for that to happen, interventions should only take place if there is a need. Routine practices and liability concerns are not needs.

There is a known truth in our culture and it’s not that ‘labor is hard’ or that ‘women are strong’. It’s that men and women are intelligent and capable of making choices for themselves that is in the best interest of their families; it’s that they are the protector, provider, and parent and will seek help when they need it for their babies. It is never okay to ignore that truth, no matter whether one deems themselves in a position of authority. Even if anyone had authority over the woman and what she feels led to do in birth, good leadership comes when you consider the benefits that everyone brings to the team. This includes the woman’s knowledge of her own body, her compassion for her baby, and the wisdom she has in how to address any situation involving her family.

Here at Free Pregnancy and Freebirth, we believe women are designed to bear, nurture, and bring forth life. We believe that both men and women should be cared for while during this transition of welcoming their new baby into their arms. We believe that birth is not a medical event. We believe that birth is beautiful.

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